Archive for March, 2008
The Frigidity And Treatment
The term frigidity is used often inaccurate and pejorative to refer to all forms of inhibition of female sexual responsiveness, from the lack of reaction of erotic excitement until different levels of inhibition orgasmic.
It is therefore a term confusing that it is necessary to demarcate, both in the kind of response (which, as we have said is different problems the lack of excitement of the lack of orgasm) as in the level of the same as it can be absolute, situational or random, and in turn primary or secondary, as in the etiology of the same. The lack of sexual desire may be in both men and women. As explained later , there are situations of occupational stress, depression and different types of conflict affecting negatively in the interest in sex to both genders.
In some cases in which there is a lack of desire in the wife, but not in the husband, recent studies indicate that some women bear the sex, nothing exciting to them, so that her husband may ejaculate quickly and to end the sexual intercourse. But part of this act and witness the pleasure and satisfaction that he receives, while she is limited to provide your body, can be very frustrating and disappointing for women. To counter such feelings at times he pressed for the excite, and precisely this inhibits further sexual response. As it is obvious this is not the best way to act, or on the part of it nor on the part of it, but what best suits them to both is to perform a sex therapy that les east to solve this problem and able to enjoy their partner relationships.
Do you because they lack the sexual desire?
There determinants both biological and psychological dysfunction this sexual, let’s see:
Determinants Biological
In accordance with H. Singer (1978) the effects of diseases, such as the chronic stress, depression, frustration and the conflict can produce endocrine changes significant capable of reducing the level of androgens. It is logical that a person who feared losing their jobs, or to feel trapped and depressed, can be produced a decrease in the level of androgens, and therefore the sex is the last thing he comes to mind. There are other biological factors that influence negatively: there are some medications and drugs, since they involve an alteration chemistry of the nerves that regulate the sexual response, and that act primarily on the brain.
Arnold Kegel thinks that the lack of use, weakness, the low pitch or the fibrosis of the muscles of the vagina contribute to generate an inability to orgasm. We agree with him, and in fact, in therapy recommended the Kegel exercises.
Determinants Psychological
There are some causes of dysfunction that are due to an education very repressive, which is generally gives in women, in which case it does not dare to ask the stimulation that needs, on many occasions because it is not even aware of their own needs. Other times may be due to sexual ignorance on the part of the couple. It may be that the husband is not very sensitive to the needs of his wife, thinking only in their own desires, and believing in a way wrong that the lack of desire of it is one of absolute responsibility to his wife. In these cases, the man does not know what can bring him to facilitate the relationship. In a therapy of mature can discover the shortcomings of each and renew the situation.
Therapy
In each case is necessary to discuss in therapy that conflicts occur, the kind of relationship, which may be the causes diádicas of sexual dysfunctions , as well as the causes of sexual dysfunctions learned. The demonstration sexual is subject to different influences, as are the memories, the experience, emotions, thoughts and associations. These influences, can both harm if the experiences and emotions experienced have been negative, as favor increasing the sexual desire if they have been positive, for example when you have been favored by the love and fantasy.
However, it must not be alarmed, because this situation is not final, through a psychological therapy scientific and well-planned, to be adapted to the situation and problems of individual person cannot solve the problem.