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Did you know that people who try condimentar your sex life, often makes their experiences less pleasant? It is true.

With the running of the years, i have seen commit to couples the same mistakes again and again while trying to improve their lives love affairs, and i would like teach how to overcome and avoid these problems.

Here are the 7 error to make love.

MISTAKE  NO. 1: Afraid or ashamed to try new things

Have you ever has had an idea for condimentar your sex life but he scared what your partner might think?

Although you do not creates, in the 90 percent of the cases, your partner would LOVE try something new, but also feel uncomfortable or embarrassed about taking the issue, as you.

AND does not have to incorporate whips, chains or to a third person. You These are nonsense! There are hundreds of ways to add variety to their games passion that are not dangerous, and with that surely your partner to feel comfortable.

MISTAKE  NO. 2: Try to convince your partner to make love

If your lover is tired or not is of encouragement to have sex, try persuade or convince for sex almost never works.

On the other hand, when a person is excited, your body releases the hormone “adrenaline” into your bloodstream. This chemical is what gives the power to make love. So here is how excitarlo/to immediately. Yes, even if it is tired.

Ladies:Want excitarlo? Practíquenle oral sex or acarícienlo with hand between 9 and 10 of the morning. That is the time of day that testosterone levels are higher. For best results, also wear something sensual, or don’t put anything. He is like that.

Men: kissing profound and passion are the largest “trigger” for women. Look in the eyes and play your face while the kiss can excitarla of truth. AND pay attention to his neck: the return crazy. But not hurry! Spend quality time with the excitement that will cause its kisses sensual.

MISTAKE NO. 3: Neglect the games prior to penetrate before

The people in a relationship (especially men) tend to neglect the preliminary games to begin to enjoy the penetration more quickly, but did you know the previous games are in fact a form of intensify orgasms?

It is. If it is kiss, cherished and played for more time, can make your sexual act even more satisfactory.

So you take it with calm. Take your time. If you want to do even better, is a partner in a playful. (This works of truth.)

If you find something that your partner really enjoys, quit, go back, and let again later. The more backward and forward, the more you want. There are also many games that can play to increase this expectation.

MISTAKE No. 4: Use toys or pornography to improve their sexual act

When the sex going through a bad season, many couples (especially men) believe that a video, a bit of plastic or a vibrant pendentive trigger instantly things.

Your mistake! While the toys may have certainly his place in their repertoire sexual, depend on them can be very dangerous. These external sources of pleasure can make the sex was quickly return less satisfactory.

Why? Because they do not want your partner end yearning more the toy plastic to obtain pleasure, more than what it craves the pleasure that you can get with you, right? The couples need discovering how pleasing parts of the body of their spouses before introducing other elements. Use as a seasoning, but not as the main dish.

MISTAKE NO. 5: Try that women have an orgasm only through the penetration

The men often feel “little men” if they cannot meet its women through the penetration. But what they need is to understand that there is a large number of women who cannot reach orgasm through sex normal.

The know this may take away completely the pressure to men. Now there is no need to bother when their women do not reach orgasm. Instead, the men should master the art of cunnilingus (perform oral sex on the women).

MISTAKE No. 6: Attempting to “break” at the same time

The simultaneous orgasms are overstated. Instead of pointing to share a single orgasm, focus entirely on the woman needs first.

Stand Back from positions that are more enjoyable and in its place make love in ways that are more pleasing to its madam, until it is completely satisfied. In that way, you will have greater likelihood that both reached the climax simultaneously.

MISTAKE No. 7: sticking to a routine pre-established too often

Already know the drill. Removes the clothes, inserted the party to part B and, in a few minutes, just the routine. Do You sounds familiar?

Regardless of the fantastic that may be the sex, there is no denying that may become bored with the years. And the reason is that make love in their basic act is always the same. But the danger is to let becomes too routine, which can begin to affect their relationship.

The term frigidity is used often inaccurate and pejorative to refer to all forms of inhibition of female sexual responsiveness, from the lack of reaction of erotic excitement until different levels of inhibition orgasmic.

It is therefore a term confusing that it is necessary to demarcate, both in the kind of response (which, as we have said is different problems the lack of excitement of the lack of orgasm) as in the level of the same as it can be absolute, situational or random, and in turn primary or secondary, as in the etiology of the same. The lack of sexual desire may be in both men and women. As explained later , there are situations of occupational stress, depression and different types of conflict affecting negatively in the interest in sex to both genders.

In some cases in which there is a lack of desire in the wife, but not in the husband, recent studies indicate that some women bear the sex, nothing exciting to them, so that her husband may ejaculate quickly and to end the sexual intercourse. But part of this act and witness the pleasure and satisfaction that he receives, while she is limited to provide your body, can be very frustrating and disappointing for women. To counter such feelings at times he pressed for the excite, and precisely this inhibits further sexual response. As it is obvious this is not the best way to act, or on the part of it nor on the part of it, but what best suits them to both is to perform a sex therapy that les east to solve this problem and able to enjoy their partner relationships.

Do you because they lack the sexual desire?

There determinants both biological and psychological dysfunction this sexual, let’s see:

Determinants Biological

In accordance with H. Singer (1978) the effects of diseases, such as the chronic stress, depression, frustration and the conflict can produce endocrine changes significant capable of reducing the level of androgens. It is logical that a person who feared losing their jobs, or to feel trapped and depressed, can be produced a decrease in the level of androgens, and therefore the sex is the last thing he comes to mind. There are other biological factors that influence negatively: there are some medications and drugs, since they involve an alteration chemistry of the nerves that regulate the sexual response, and that act primarily on the brain.

Arnold Kegel thinks that the lack of use, weakness, the low pitch or the fibrosis of the muscles of the vagina contribute to generate an inability to orgasm. We agree with him, and in fact, in therapy recommended the Kegel exercises.

Determinants Psychological

There are some causes of dysfunction that are due to an education very repressive, which is generally gives in women, in which case it does not dare to ask the stimulation that needs, on many occasions because it is not even aware of their own needs. Other times may be due to sexual ignorance on the part of the couple. It may be that the husband is not very sensitive to the needs of his wife, thinking only in their own desires, and believing in a way wrong that the lack of desire of it is one of absolute responsibility to his wife. In these cases, the man does not know what can bring him to facilitate the relationship. In a therapy of mature can discover the shortcomings of each and renew the situation.

Therapy

In each case is necessary to discuss in therapy that conflicts occur, the kind of relationship, which may be the causes diádicas of sexual dysfunctions , as well as the causes of sexual dysfunctions learned. The demonstration sexual is subject to different influences, as are the memories, the experience, emotions, thoughts and associations. These influences, can both harm if the experiences and emotions experienced have been negative, as favor increasing the sexual desire if they have been positive, for example when you have been favored by the love and fantasy.

However, it must not be alarmed, because this situation is not final, through a psychological therapy scientific and well-planned, to be adapted to the situation and problems of individual person cannot solve the problem.

The dysfunction sexual can occur in humans and the woman. It prevents the person’s obtain satisfaction of a sexual act. When we refer to the sexual dysfunction in the female there is talk of disqualification of women to achieve or maintain a excitation during any phase of the cycle of reply sex. Approximately 43% of women are affected by different typically sexual disorders; ¾ of these women have reached the menopause. The most women describe this disorder as being a lack of interest in the sex. Less common, but the terms of female sexual dysfunction known include the dyspareunia (pain when sexual act) and vaginismes. A treatment is now available in the form of patches under prescription to handle sexual dysfunction in the woman. Consult your family doctor to help you on this condition.

Symptoms
The symptoms of the sexual dysfunction are the following:
* Decline in the sexual desire
* Disqualification to achieve or maintain a excitation
* Disqualification to arrive at the orgasm
* Pain during the report

If you encounter one or several of these effects above, it is possible that you suffer from this problem. See your doctor or gynécologiste if these symptoms persist and interfere with your sexual desires.

Treatment
Sexual relations in the dysfunction the woman is a disorder that is no has not given much importance until recently. Women should have more information on this disorder and should receive recommendations on the non-medical treatment which include the use of erotica, lubricant and therapy to overcome any problems of relations.

There are several available treatment for treating Dysfunction Sexual Female which include the replacement therapy estrogen, therapy to and device gets therapy pump for dealing with sexual dysfunction among women. C is a medicinal product under prescription only and should be used only after having consulted a physician.

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Causes
The dysfunction female sexual can occur for many reasons including causes as physical and psychological. The physical causes may include transactions the pelvis as hysterectomy, menopause, durcicement of the arteries habits of tobacco excessive, lack of hormones such as estrogen and testosterone, diabetes, blood pressure high and low and interference of medicines such as anti depressants, contraceptive pills and drug for the weight.

Psychological causes may include the depression, the stress at work, physical abuse, emotional or sexual, excess of alcohol or drugs, problems of self-esteem and relational problems personal.