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Since Victorian times, 19th century and the beginning of the twentieth century, masturbation is viewed as something evil, immoral, dirty and harmful to health. Even, dealt this act with diseases such as tuberculosis, madness, the paralysis, loss of hair and blindness. Because of these beliefs, in ancient times, it condemned all acts related to the masturbation and even were designed apparatus and methods that they avoided that young men and women practicing masturbation. For example, women were forced to use gloves made of a material extremely rough and men, straps of chastity that prevented penile erection . In these times, a person who was surprised masturbate received physical punishment to persuade not to practice masturbation.

Fortunately, through the last century, medical science, psychiatry and psychology have been responsible for belie these assertions. Today we know that masturbation is an act normal and healthy in any human being, which does not cause any kind of physical harm or psychological. It is more, masturbation, alone, of course, is 100 percent safe sex, as it is not transmitted sexually transmitted diseases and there is no risk of pregnancy. Another important point is that through the masturbation learn to get to know our body and to explore our sexuality, which will help us to work better sexually with our partner.

However, even with this change of attitude in our society, remain several myths about masturbation, which concern to parents and even to the same practitioners of the masturbation. Know some of the myths about masturbation. The masturbation cause physical damage: False, masturbation is an act normal and healthy and does not cause: acne, blindness, loss of the hair, tuberculosis, paralysis, hairs in the hands, decrease in sexual potency, infertility reduction or increase the size of the penis. Conclusion, does not cause physical changes in the person.

Masturbation cause psychological damage: False, masturbation is an act normal and healthy and does not cause: madness, a antisocial personality, homosexuality or other changes to the personality or mental health. Only the people without sexual masturbate: False, it is not uncommon that couples masturbate, including many couples of husbands do. Masturbation is just another form of sexual expression and the practice does not mean that this dissatisfied with the sexual performance of your partner. In addition, masturbation aid to the couple learn to recognize the incentives needed to achieve orgasm, in this way improving the quality of the sexual relationship. What if one does not know what you like, how can expect to know your partner?

The masturbation is practiced only by young people and immature: False, although it is true that masturbation reaches its maximum expression in adolescence, this continues to be practiced during adulthood. Only men masturbate: False, studies in different countries show that 90 percent of men and 54 per cent of women have practiced in some time in their lives.

The masturbation, especially in excess is harmful: False, there is no negative consequences, provided that:
* Masturbation does not interfere or replace the sexual activity of mature, i.e. that the person prefers masturbation to sex, or while masturbate after intercourse because feels have not achieved the desired pleasure
* Not to establish a vicious circle, obsession or compulsion, namely, that the person feel that the masturbation avoids fulfill their responsibilities, which obliges it to leave their daily routine in order to masturbate, that interferes with their social activities or cause feelings of remorse, guilt or concern.

More complex than the pleasure male, enjoyment women is long remained mysterious. But at a time when the right to happiness and enjoyment stretches over all the screens and magazines, women are demanding their right to pleasure. Result of a sexuality long written by and for men, the female pleasure is long past to oblivion. But today, the machos no longer have the symbol and princesses passive have left place to women active and hedonic !

The women say their right to pleasure
There are 100 years, it was thought that the orgasm female did not exist and that women who appreciated the sex were mentally disturbed. Today, women are on the contrary bombed daily of advice to achieve the seventh heaven or the ultimate orgasm. How to explain this (r)evolution sexual ? Women’s sexuality Long has only been theorized by men, who have long reduced to “sex low”. Man attributing to the the adjectives reverse with “sex fort”, “sex sovereign” or “sex dominant”… but fortunately, the advent of feminism has enabled women to exchange among them on their lived intimate and not only suffer from a vision of their own male sexuality and their own body.

Aspects own of female sexuality are thus emerged from the shadow. Beyond the affirmation of these differences, it is the advent of a real sexual communication which is the sole able to afford more pleasure to two.

The orgasme female, champion of the pleasures
Quite different from the orgasme male, female orgasme would be longer to secure than men. Easy Excuse for those who forget too easily the preliminary or are not the experts of the love ?… that is what is not far from thinking Dr Gerard Leleu in his book The dreams secrets of clitoris1, knowing that 95 per cent of women’s access to the orgasm in a few minutes in stimulating themselves their clitoris, it considers as well as the problems with the orgasme intervene with the other sex…  : “the problems, it is with the man and particularly in the coitus that they appear. All men are not very competent in this field”.

But the effort is widely rewarded, the orgasm female is more powerful than that of the man. Although mysterious, the enjoyment women is apparent to a wave, a storm of pleasure, who is not confined to the genital area, but is disseminated to the whole of the body. Psychiatrist and sexologist, Philippe Brenot described in his book The sex and the amour2 : “This are first of contractions Rhythmed of the uterus and of the third external vagina, this region that the so-called the ” platform orgasmic”, but also of the region of the anus. The contractions, first of all intense and reconciled (every 0,8 second), waver gradually, but are spreading to other regions of the body. Many muscles contract in a accompaniment of orgasm while the sensations seem to be a moment “suspended” before the perception of an intense pleasure”.

Another advantage, it may be multiple where men cannot have a orgasme by sexual intercourse !
Better to listen and better listen to the other
“Better listen to her body, the better listen to the other”, such is the best way to access the pleasure. To assist you, there must be -all combat received ideas tenacious. We help you to identify these a-priori who can block the road to the 7th sky.

The expectations of prince charming
Legacy of tales of the “Belle au bois dormant” or “Barbe Bleue”, the woman is often presented as in a waiting position of its prince charming. By extension, the women would be passive waiting of the decisions and good will of their lovers. Stop ! Women must express freely and openly their desire, actively participate in their sexuality !